New job , new life etc... no dealings with back home toxic Arkansas anymore. I do not deal with dad or anyone , everything is on my terms now. It was just yesterday I went to get a haircut and my parents complained well your dad could have cut it like normal a waste of money........ I told em where to stick it! Yes I am the same in general but no more people running me without me telling them where they can go with advice , complaints etc... Lets just say I am finally in control of my own life and a lot happier.