New job , new life etc... no dealings with back home toxic Arkansas anymore. I do not deal with dad or anyone , everything is on my terms now. It was just yesterday I went to get a haircut and my parents complained well your dad could have cut it like normal a waste of money........ I told em where to stick it! Yes I am the same in general but no more people running me without me telling them where they can go with advice , complaints etc... Lets just say I am finally in control of my own life and a lot happier. Example I am looking for a new vehicle , want an suv so dad finds me a mini van it is what he wants for me. I said not going to happen , so he said what is wrong with a mini van...... I said DON'T WANT ONE... That is your answer pops!!! Dad I have told you 500 times and even pointed out what I would like to get... Why are you even trying to force what I do not want on me!!